Take your time to analyze yourself

Slow down .... do not be in rush in deciding things.

I want to have control I want a perfect body I want a perfect soul (taken from "Creep" by Radiohead)

I just wanna higlight the SOUL here. Yes, it does indeed take time to have perfect soul (and also to have perfect body). Go on diet diyah!!

You need to control your mind and the way you think. Most importantly you need to be able to analyze what you feel deep down inside. It is not easy. No, it's not. The two things that are difficult to be differenciated by our thinking are love and lust.

Be careful! Some people can not differenciate between love and lust (including me ;)').
I had a friend who always asked me to stand out of the problem/thingkings/obstacles to analyze things. Remember "Bagaikan Katak dalam Tempurung"? You have to get out of the tempurung to see things clearly.

Still not able to do so by yourself, then try to go to someone that knows best about this. Someone that you can trust.

Listen to what they say and believe only when your heart says yes for the very first time that person tells you. The second opinion from your heart usually involves your thinking (thanks to Sandhy and Asung for this theory).

My friends, love is hope, patience and happiness.
Lust is always in rush and always what you think is best for you (or at least good for you) and always YOU. Lust is always afraid of getting hurt and always ends up getting hurt. Lust is always suspicious.

Well, I have been busy trying to figure out about love. I am getting boring here.
Sorry, friends. Have a nice day.